Will human being ever learnt?

Some people never learnt what is the meaning of making promises. One thing for certain, promises are meant to be kept. People always take thing for granted until its too late.

On the other hand some people never remember what is it like to lose the one you love. It is certainly a horrible and hurtful feeling. If you are given a chance to get back again that someone you love, would you treasure it or take it for granted? Once again if he/she's alive and you got her back, you are considered lucky, but if she's dead, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Somehow if you have that mentality, of taking her for granted again that she's afterall all yours now and thinking that you will not lose her ever again, then you for sure don't deserve to be love. Not from her, not from anyone either.

I knew a friend who's name will have to be anonymous, as I do not want to paint the picture name story openly but an idiot to say that he cheated on her. When she found out, things were not as beautiful as it look like anymore. It hurts, it hurts so deep down inside her to know that she was being cheated. The trust she had for him is obviously gone. It hurts to know someone that she trusted and had built a life with all her life had ruin her.

Took a while for her to grasp that it had happened, until one day she finally decided to move on. She started meeting other people and had a lot of friends supporting her. It was really a moment of her rebuilding and see life again.

She finally met someone again but the relationship could never be the same anymore as she is so afraid of being hurt in a relationship again. She was very cautious in her relationship but she was indeed very happy. She got the treatment of respect and cared by her new partner.

The things that pull her forward and back is her child. She adores her child dearly. She would do anything for her child. She felt that her child is not happy seeing the parents seperated. Since then she decided to have a friendly seperation with her husband so her child would feel better.

The story begin, her husband treated her with so much respect, give her so much attention and show her how much he really love her whenever he could. He knew he have to be the nicest guy in the world after what he had done to her.
Finally she fall for his sweet talk trap and take him back and thinking that it will be fine now after seeing her child was very happy too.

For few months everything was painted beautifully. Then finally the respect, attention and love was then taken back to his own selfish, uncaring, stubborn, self centered person again.
She question him again, what is the reason they went back together again if its going to be like this? It is better they get divorce?
Knowingly the change of his other side has re appeared again so he uncaringly replied, if you want to, go ahead.!!

Does this person deserve to be love? No...
Does this person will ever be happy?
I doubtly think so, he will have a temporary happiness all his life but will never ever find any true love who will die for him through good and bad time.

Absent sharpen the love, presence routine it.
The story continue...